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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

I'd like to think that we did.

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Becky Morquecho's avatar

I get lost in your stories every single time. Beautiful work, Callie 👏🏽 You’re a master at weaving in the past.

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Becky. I think the past haunts me until I can make a story or two from it and it can live somewhere else.

Thank you so much for your kind words.

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Sonya Spillmann's avatar

this essay ... I don't even have words. I LOVED reading every word of it. How I WISH you were still here, but ("Humidity is a spider, and Washington DC is her web." HA! so perfect!) so I get why you left ---> but I miss you and love reading this story of YOU (pl). ❤️

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Sonya. Oh, how we'd have so much fun if we were neighbors, wouldn't we? I'm certain we'd start a comedy show because WE ARE SO FUNNY.

Thank you so much for your kind words.

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Katie's avatar

This Calvin College Alum's week has been made. Thank you for sharing this with us!

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Calvin!!! I'm so glad to know this! Will you be at the Festival of Faith and Writing?

Thank you so much for reading!

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Laura Rennie's avatar

Old ass oyster crackers 🤣🤣🤣 phenomenal storytelling, Callie! This might be my new favorite piece of yours. I could pull a dozen quotes that made me laugh/smile/marvel. Your essays teach me a lot about writing.

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you so much, Laura!

I don't know if I'll ever eat an oyster cracker again. Hahaha!

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Fay Gordon's avatar

I am speechless. Wow, Callie. This is stunning. The way you told a love story through place-all the pieces, all the memories-incredible. Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Fay.

I wasn't sure how to capture 25 years, you know? So I was grateful when the idea for place came up. I thought I'd give that a shot.

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Julie Vlahon's avatar

Masterful Callie. ❤️👏

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Julie!

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Jennifer Floyd's avatar

This is so stunning. I felt like I could see every scene, it was so visual. Just lovely

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Jennifer. I was for sure trying to work that description muscle.

Thank you for reading.

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Rachel Nevergall's avatar

Callie I didn’t want this essay to end. And now I feel a desire to walk down the block and sit myself on the Rehm bench and think about what is next. I’ll take more of these stories please.

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Rachel. I hope that bench is still there.

"More stories like this," is a very welcome request. What an encouragement. Thank you.

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Lauren's avatar

Loved this! Amazing storytelling. And this line will stick with me: “I do not know if teaching is a dementor or a patronus.”

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Lauren.

Yeah, teaching is a bit of an elusive wild thing. Can't seem to ever shake it.

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Catherine Roberts's avatar

Tuesday nights at Corby’s ☘️💙💛☘️ Thank you for sharing such beautiful moments of your family’s story, and for reminding me of my own!

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Go, Irish! We're taking our oldest there for a college visit soon! (Well, not to Corby's. Haha!)

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Catherine Roberts's avatar

OH I hope he loves it! And that he is admitted!

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Kim Sliwinski's avatar

This was excellent reading for my Saturday morning with coffee! Thank YOU!!!

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you! And thanks for reading!

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Stacy Bronec's avatar

I loved every line of this essay, Callie. You’re such a gifted storyteller, and I will never tire of reading your words.

The “old ass” oyster crackers made me laugh. 😆 I moved to DC in August 2006 (and it was my first time in the city ever) and I had never experienced humidity like that! It hit me like a wall when I stepped out of the airport. 🥵

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you, Stacy! I admit, I cracked up at the oyster cracker line when I wrote it.

Also, you were in DC in August of 2006?!?! SO WAS I!!!!!

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Stacy Bronec's avatar

Maybe we crossed paths! I lived there from August to December 2006!

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Sarah Anne Hayes's avatar

The way you describe humidity cracked me up. My family has lived in Northern Virginia for over 20 years, but we spent three years in southern Georgia prior to that, so the humidity has never really phased me, but I always laugh when our friends from the north bemoan the humidity. 🤣

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Haha! Yeah, we Northerners don't know what to do with ourselves in that there humidity. I used to say that June-August in DC was the Midwest's January - March.

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Katie Bhadra's avatar

Love this!!!

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Callie R. Feyen's avatar

Thank you!

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