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Reem Faruqi's avatar

Beautiful

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Coffee + Crumbs's avatar

Thanks for reading.

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Bethany Bell's avatar

From one Bethany to another, thank you for sharing this story. My inner circle of family members also call me “Bethy” when they want to hold me tenderly, and it makes me soften every time.

The inner critic is real and hard to overcome— I have chalked it up to my innate, born personality and how it has absorbed/interpreted the society and world we live in. We see a lot of “perfection”, judgement, unforgiven trespasses and decide if we strive for perfect ourselves, we will keep our little families safe from the wrath. I realize, time and time again, the most dangerous wrath is of my own doing. When I can review the day through a fresh lens, I agree with you: I’m doing a good job and my people and God see that.

Cheers, Bethany. 🫶🏽

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